Friday, March 06, 2009

Small Brain in the Ass

I've just visited my friend's blog, and read her latest posts about shopping and the needs to have "me-time", time to be alone and relax without having any disturbance (including jobs).

Well, "me-time" is just something that we all--normal people--need. Right? I think, there was nothing wrong about the posts. I knew that recently, my friend was enjoying (window)shopping alot. That was part of her job as a writer. She needs to be updated about the trend of fashion and lifestyle. But I guess, not all people who visited her blog knew about the fact. And this stupid-man-with-a-very-small-brain-in-the-ass, definitely one of them who didn't know.

Sorry if I'm rude. That was my best "compliment" for the man who put unproper comments on my friend's blog. Very annoying comments.

When my friend wrote about the needs of having "me-time" for her self, this man judged her materialistic, shopaholic, lazy, and not really pretty. No wonder, he said, she is still single until now. Yeah, real stupid-man-with-a-small-brain-in-the-ass does exist, I guess. He mentioned his name "dodol". Seriously a "dodol" person. Kampungan dan norak.

I wrote this because I know my friend very well. First, she's independent. Shopaholic wasn't really a problem since she has a good job which gives her enough to have such lifestyle. Lagian, mosok iya, pengin ngerasain me-time aja langsung dicap malas! One more thing, she's pretty. Being single is her choice, until she find the right person for her.

Actually, I don't have to write this much. All I want to say, especially to that small-brain-in-the-ass, is: don't judge people by their blog. Don't say anything that might hurt someone, especially whom you didn't know well. Try to put respects on others, please. Even the net has netiquette. Intinya, jangan norak dong.

Yah, blog memang harusnya jadi media dua arah. Makanya blogger pun mesti hati-hati dengan tulisannya, karena siapa saja bisa memberi komentar. Tapi kalau tulisannya nggak bertendensi menjelekkan orang lain, apa pantas dikomentari yang nggak-nggak?

PS: Sudah lama banget nggak nulis dalam bahasa Inggris. Ada grammar yang salah, nggak? Jadi ingat, dulu kawan saya Warouw yang suka ngoreksi kesalahan bahasa Inggris saya. Hiks, sekarang dia sibuk selalu...

Gambar diambil dari sini. Saya nggak tega menampilkan gambar small-brain-in-the-ass di ruang coretan ini.

4 comments:

indonesia said...

hahahhaaa....., sabar Res..., kok jadi lo yg sewot?he..hehe..., inget pantang (pantang marah ada gak ya?)

in fact, gw setuju aja dengan pendapat lo, ttg komen ke orang yg "gk dikenal". Gak bgt sebenernya, krn lo cm "tau" lewat blog, trus bisa menilai seseorang (atau jgn2 si "dodolman" itu punya indra ke-6?hihi who knows..)

tp, postingan lo ini jadi bikin gw "kenal" sisi lo yg lain :)

emmet24son said...

udah bagus koq jeng, gk ada yg salah kyknya. btw, belakangan koq malah banyakan lo ya posting blog-nya? gw lagi keteteran ni :(

ketut epi said...

aku juga baca tuh komen yang dimaksud. nylekit banget emang. tapi kupkir pemilik blog ga marah, soalnya dia ga respon (atau skrg udah ya?).

Restituta Arjanti said...

@indonesia: quoting my notes, "membaca di ruang ini, bukan jaminan untuk mengenal saya." hehe...

@fmn: bykan postingan sampah man. lo keteteran kerja, tp masih bisa disambil hunting kambing guling? (lol)

@epi: udah pi. aku punya pikiran sama kaya kamu. si komentator kemungkinan kenal dan pernah ditolak sama empunya blog :p poor coward... btw, moderating comments layak dicoba jg sih